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Situation:
"I'm 18. I don't have any friends. Truth. Every person I was friends with has managed to take advantage of me. I trust people easily. So now I don't have any friends. My mom keeps nagging. She abuses me. My health isn't that good. I keep falling ill. My dad isn't here too. I lead a very lonely life.And the guy i like (since one year) doesn't like me back. I mean we're friends but it feels like I'm not going to hear from him anymore ( not that we talk everyday because of his work). Life is really a mess. I don't want to live anymore. Any advice?"
-Anonymous

My Advice:
Oh, sweetie, if only I could hug you tight...Please do not feel that way. 
The best solution that I could think of is HOPE...NEVER EVER KILL that HOPE! 

***hope that the right time will always come even if too much pain is felt now...you are wounded and hurt, you think that the wounds will never heal, but you rule your world, only you and no one else!-they will all heal if you let them...YEAH, YOU RULE YOUR WORLD!so do not give up on it 

***hope that there will be change someday, even if it seems like forever, never ever give up...hope that the sun will still shine (though it's always been there, and you might have just lost that feeling of seeking its warmth) 

***hope that you will find someone who will accept everything about you, will never leave you alone no matter what happens, ---the one who will be one with you ...it might not be today, not tomorrow or the next months/years...or truth is, that one person might not be found, or he may not find you but there is completely nothing wrong with hoping.. 
HOPE will keep you moving forward 


Other helpful tips based on experience (feel free to do any of these, or perhaps all of them): 

1. Find something to do-what do you love to do the most/ something you're good at?---at least there is one thing, for sure, I trust that you have...even one very simple thing. Do this/these thing/s as a hobby, If possible, Spend time to hone that skill/ability and you'll someday find a sense of accomplishment to divert yourself from morbid/ sorrowful thoughts. Be inspired by others and find motivation to keep yourself busy. Read something fun/something inspiring,too. (Me, I do drawings and paintings...A LOT! ^^ Check this out ---Title: Annarasumanara via webtoons.com, if you have time of course, there are more interesting ones, like Girls of the Wild's, Untouchable and Noblesse, my faves! :)

2. Own a pet--a pet dog, guinea pig, rabbit, fish, lovebird, or any pet that you feel like having--they're likely to be pretty loyal and of course, totally cute!...plus they are true to you and simply "give" without the thought of "taking" ...cure to loneliness, too 
(Aww, I had a pet rabbit named "Yang Li before, whom I would always cuddle..and a pet dog named Princess who was sooh furry, active/jolly...I miss them!) 

3. Do yoga, deep breathing and reflections in your solitary moments, know your strengths, or perhaps find your strengths...YOU ARE STRONG, BELIEVE IN YOURSELF! Forget all about the stress 
(Me, I do underwater yoga, helps me feel very relaxed) 
Close your eyes and forget about the world for a moment...repeatedly tell yourself that you can do this, you will not give up; giving up won't do any good. 

4. Illness is sometimes a state of mind...you may be physically ill, but if you let your mind think that you're not, you will somehow feel better 

5. Stand up for yourself, fight/defend yourself from abuse..If possible, ask for help or join a support group-the world will never run out of good people, (well, I believe that there is always goodness in everyone-even that one person who mistreats you today, might still change) If you physically can't defend yourself, at least strengthen your mind by telling yourself "I will not falter just because of this"...no matter how big is the damage, imagine that it's just an ant bite! your mind can do it if you allow it to 

6. This may sound weird, but try to talk to strangers (whom you feel you want to talk to/whom you feel harmless, or whom you feel you can somehow trust)... Who knows, a connection might start...shine your light to everyone you meet, if you lost your light, try to retrieve it by finding deeper meaning in everything you do or perhaps, thinking of happy thoughts. Take chances to trust people over and over again even if you have been betrayed so many times, because people aren't the same, avoid generalizing...at one point,you may get tired of always trusting people,but never get tired of trusting yourself...TRUST YOURSELF, and TRUST that YOU WILL MAKE IT THROUGH...Don't say that you have no friends, because yourself is your friend,too...so don't ever let yourself down 

7. Don't mind what other people think! the world keeps on creating standards-what is weird, what is not...what is wrong and what is right, normal or abnormal...but I say, we have different perceptions and we must be free from the dictations of the world, so live life as you choose... 

8. Life is a game/a struggle, life is F******G hard, indeed! -think that you are born to fight---you must not give in, nor give up ---you can win this game! even if we haven't met, I believe in you, as well as all others who have shared their answers here :) 

9.LIVE your life, don't just SURVIVE...yeah, these two terms are completely different...in your case at least, try to have the will to survive now, and live it later once the time comes. You deserve better life than the one you have now, so if you give up now, how can you ever find that better life? You may have a lonely life, but you are not alone, trust me...this stage will soon be over, it does not mean this lonely life will be forever so give yourself a chance to experience the "unlonely" moments. Move forward,set aside the negative energy/thoughts/memories or perhaps view them as tools that will make you tougher/stronger... There is always a good reason for everything bad that happens...set your mind to always find that good reason. Failures and loss will not be avoided, but always look on the brighter side... 

I wouldn't say that I've been at exactly the same situation as you are in right now, but I know exactly this feeling that you are feeling - yet I never gave in; I didn't give up...after 27 years, here I am, not just SURVIVING, but now LIVING. 

I really am not expecting that my advice will help, because it's totally up to YOU! ^^ You will help yourself, more than anyone else will... 

PS Just one request, could you please SMILE today... :) Y'know, some great things start with a smile. ^^
Let's Stay Healthy and Happy! :) by eirol87


Horror (one-shot) ^^ by eirol87





Dance of the Lotus Fans... by eirol87

Holding on to a Piece of Him by eirol87

When An Angel Weeps... by eirol87

Mukuro Fanart by eirol87

Thy Rightful Owner by eirol87



9th Marvel drawing: my fave Phoenix by eirol87

Halloween Fever: Armin and Jean: Ready to Roll! by eirol87

6th marvel drawing by eirol87



Mukuro: Let it Bleed! by eirol87

Amidst the Sweetness by eirol87
  • Mood: Affection
  • Listening to: Hello-Shinee
  • Eating: Dried Dates
  • Drinking: Water
Situation:
Before you go into the "the same way as any other girl" talk- she's outright told me her family doesn't approve dating outside of her race. 
Anyway, I really like her, and we're good friends. But that's all we are right now because I haven't found a way to impress her or her family. 
We take pictures together fairly regularly. We pose the same way a couple would in our pictures, or similar. However, she's not yet ever initiated something with me on purpose, unless it had to do with some social aspect like pictures. She has two siblings. An older brother who apparently doesn't like me, for obvious reasons and an older sister in college who does like me. 
However, they're all controlled by their parents. They have much power over them, as expected, but they are somewhat irrational about a few things. 
She can't date outside of her race, and I'm half black and half white. 
She can't stay after school for too long and I don't think that they approve of her taking pictures with me either. We naturally act like a couple for the camera and I think they feel that it's bad for her image- she's a model and does pageants. 
I'm not bad, in my opinion. I get mostly perfect grades, occasional b's. I do track, soccer, I'm running for am officer position next year for my school's FBLA club, a student government position, teen court, Interact, and we're both in the IB program at our school. 
Any advice? Something specific that I can do to make myself more appealing to her and/or her family? Thanks!
-Anonymous

My Response: :)

Coming from a Filipina: 

Be yourself and try to genuinely have fun with them (we, Filipinos super love fun!) but respect those limits and be very very patient as it's true that parents have that unbreakable bond and overwhelming authority over their children (as per culture). hope for the best.Believe me, if you play your cards right, time will come when they will feel comfortable towards you, and vice versa... Take one step at a time.. 

Be very respectful and polite, do the "mano po" stuff (if allowed, lolz..i know you know what it is and the parents know it, too)...Also, determine her feelings first and impress her in every way! when you confess your feelings, make it very sincere and special...show those honest eyes! when you're together, always be a gentleman (like open the door for her, let her enter the room first, let her sit first, offer a handky (or perhaps tissue) when you see even a drop of sweat on her forehead -or wipe them out yourself-and of course, if ever you see her crying ;)) and treat her with full respect, of course! 

Also, be a gentleman with the parents, and show them you are very independent and you can support their daughter (in all aspects-emotionally, financially, etc.) Show her that you value whatever or whoever is dear to her ***VERY IMPORTANT: Do not show the parents how smart you are but show them how wise you are! (as wisdom impresses older folks...i know y'know the difference b/w the two)...show composure and stability! for the brother, know his hobbies/ fun stuffs/fave sports, gain his trust and bond with him like a "best buddy" and show him you are manly in every way (like you are someone he can rely on in terms of "giving away" her sister, lolz)... 

Based on what you have written, the family falls on the conservative type...***One very important rule-for a conservative Filipino girl/family---never ever treat her like she's "easy" or don't ever show any behavior or sign that would give her /her family that impression. Practice proper courtship (and you would need to court the family, too! lolz) You must exert effort and time for it to work out, be persistent enough like "giving up" is not in your vocabulary. To tell you the truth, I and most of my Filipino female friends are very impressed with persistent guys. I even know a lot of cases where in the guy had courted the girl for 3-6 years first before they got married; and in old times, it would even reach 8-12 years for courtship (whew! at least, it's now reduced, hahaha) i know you might think it's quite too long, but trust me, it's all worth it!) 

Oh,btw- about that racial background disapproval? For now, they might say they don't approve dating outside her race, but if you show them how sincere and serious you are, trust me, their views would change! If your feelings are true, who cares about the race anyway? it all boils down to the person that you are and how you would show them your feelings towards her through your actions...There is always that possibility that person's view can change, be an optimist!...and the very best of luck! :) 

P.S Don't ever plan on giving up (if you are really serious with this girl) as persistence usually leads you to achieving your goal...to achieving happiness! :) 

OMG! I wrote a lot again, lolz...'hope these would help, though! :)


Photo credits: Dennis Bautista Photography
  • Mood: Sweet
  • Listening to: Everything You Want - Boyce Avenue
  • Eating: Dried Dates
  • Drinking: Tea
Prayers, Passion and A Life Full of Colors by eirol87
Prayers, Passion and A Life Full of Colors
Most of my artworks are meaningful, but this is, by far, the most meaningful...because this is an art from the heart, an art made for that very special person whom I will decide to love...it's kinda rushed, though but I poured my heart into it. And as shown in this artwork, my precious gifts to that person are: PRAYERS, PASSION and a LIFE FILLED WITH COLORS! :)

Concept: Original
Character: Original (it's probably me, as a sorceress! ;)  )

(this is my first time drawing a phoenix, LOL :) )

Materials used:
> base art: black ballpoint pen, black colored pen, black permanent marker
>colors: colored pens, oil pastel, silver metallic pen
(I was planning to use oil paint, but I know it will take days to dry up, ;(  )


Meanings/Representations:

Standing in front of the person I would decide to love, I would offer these three precious gifts:

1. Prayers- I would pray for him everyday!-for him to be safe, to always be happy, to keep on moving forward, for his kindness never to fade, for him to love with all his heart! ..and many more!
-represented by a scroll with the prayers written on it. I thought of a scroll with a "vintage" effect/ traditional air. Prayers are very important and offers spiritual healing...healing to the soul! People pray for different reasons! We communicate to Him Almighty for the sake of our beloved and we do it selflessly, hoping the all the best would come to him/her whom we hold dear in our hearts.

2. Passion- I would let the passion burn and will keep it forever!
-represented by a Phoenix-burning/blazing with fire
-passion in every action, in every move, in every gesture to show your beloved how much he is loved-that is my second gift. I chose this mythical bird as a symbol of burning passion. The reason is obvious-fire represents passion and a bird of fire soaring freely into the sky represents a passion that grows!

3. A Life Full of Colors -I would paint his life, and make it as colorful as my life!
-represented by the peacock feathers and the flowers around her 
-I've always been attracted to peacock feathers, so elegant and colorful! Wouldn't it be nice to live a life full of fun and colors with the one you love? That's why I decided to have this as my third gift. I will do everything to make each day so much fun and colorful, so that the sweetness that we long for would never fade!---would last forever!


The Lady Sorceress-- The lady represents me (though she's much more gorgeous, but I really have fair complexion!LOL ;) )---yep, a mysterious sorceress who could grant any wish of her beloved. I chose the sorceress to put a mysterious air in the character (just like my personality--soooh mysterious! ;) ). I coloered the hair deep dark red to represent love and passion, too. The huge ring that surrounds her is like her own life, also filled with colors and countless of fun stuffs- it also means she has so much to give!

I would give him these three special gifts each and every day because of how I feel for him----none other than LOVE so, wherever you are, get ready for these gifts! 😘. Heart Heart Heart 


Love Love Love Love Love Love Love Love Love Love Love Love Love Love Love Love Love Love Love Love Love Love Love Love Love Love 

'Hadn't been drawing for quite a while. 'Hope you like it, guys and girls! :) stay happy!
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At times, there is an overwhelming desire within us to take a risk and take every chance we are given,

yet no one really knows why we still end up watching those chances fade and just keep on wondering what's real...

bound to drown into an unending nothingness.



Still others have that overpowering wish to protect and cherish someone,

but they still end up hurting that one special person...

suffering twice the pain that the person feels, or worse-eventually losing him/her.



It gets way too difficult when one cannot express what he/she truly feels and one has not been given any chance to understand what the other really means...

Every real thought, every intended action, those unspoken words and that one honest dream will just remain a mystery...and nothing more.



Too many complications...are our hearts designed to create such twisted and messed up pictures?



Yeah, everyone wants to be happy but not everyone knows how to grab that happiness...



So when that chance comes, grab it with both hands and never let go...




(I want to know your views about this.Feel free to leave your comments below.)
Too Far Apart...yet our hearts are one by eirol87

Wild Hearts-Pencil Drawing by eirol87

Thy Rightful Owner by eirol87

Butterflies... by eirol87

First Dance... by eirol87

Holding on to a piece of her... by eirol87

Holding on to a Piece of Him by eirol87

Runaway... by eirol87

Pen and Pencil by eirol87

In an Ancient Temple... by eirol87

February Bitterness by eirol87

Darker than Black End Song interpretation by eirol87

When An Angel Weeps... by eirol87

Romance by eirol87

Crying Boy by eirol87

Wound by eirol87

Angel by eirol87

Krad's new-found Love by eirol87

Cute Copule by eirol87

here's me now (ballpoint pen) by eirol87

Regret by eirol87

Anbu by eirol87


Kiss by eirol87

Killua (and his love?) version 3 by eirol87

Very old pencil sketch-real version of Fallen... by eirol87

whenever I fall...2 by eirol87

Dance of the Lotus Fans... by eirol87

Amidst the Sweetness by eirol87

Kradhikari: the Shadow Warrior by eirol87
#Team Ghosts: Chrisoleah: the Clover-Vine Ghost by eirol87
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  • Eating: Ramen
  • Drinking: peach tea

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Lorie
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Well, kumusta? (how are you?)

A lot of lovely people here have been asking me if I ever took an art-related course...nope, well, I was NURSE- yep, a licensed/professional nurse...Sad to say, I never dreamed of becoming one (it's a very long story). Anyway, I landed a different job... Now, I am working in the UAE and I'm proud to be an artist here in DA...:)


I'm just an ordinary girl who loves to express herself through art, a self-taught artist...and dA's like an outlet for me. ^_^ Here, I can shout to the world that I am an artist! I joined dA not to be noticed but to let out these intricate thoughts and feelings I've been keeping within...

My life used to be filled with colors, but has recently been shaded with tints of gray...bit by bit, I've been attempting to retrieve those colors.

The thing I like to do the most in life is---to encourage people, and to be like the sun during their dark days, because seeing others bring out the best in them somehow adds to my happiness...and same thing was done to me by someone before when I was about to give up (a special one who has saved me in every way, though I haven't realized it soon enough... T_T

but enough with the T_T, I don't wanna cry here...

I am a happy person in general (except when I' think of the course I have taken XD) ... I smile and laugh a lot, and cry a lot, I dream a lot, I take a lot of pictures ...and of course, like everyone else, I just want to be happy!

I love drawing romantic scenes, I write romantic and dark poems...I pretty much draw anything under the sun- cartoon and anime characters, buildings, plants, animals, landscape, body parts, faces of people, my face, my shoes, my hands and blah blah blah(narci mode lol!) ...but I do want to draw something not existing in the real world.(and angels do exist!) sometimes, I'm more like a critique, I'm fond of browsing over others' works as they inspire me a lot...
I do not usually stick to one form/category of art, I try new stuffs and I draw depending on my mood. When I'm sort of happy, I do a lot of colored art, but during blue days, I do monochromes and sketches...^^

I do love anime and I watch all types of it , from dark anime to harem, depending on my mood but my all-time fave is HunterxHunter (well, of course, Killua's one of the coolest characters.LOL!) Recently, I've been watching episodes of Shingeki no Kyojin, Brothers Conflict and Blood Lad...would you even believe I watched No.6? ('cause I thought it was sci-fi, not until the 2 boys kissed!LOL!) I like Toradora!, KaichouwaMaid-sama, Darker than Black, Pandora Hearts, Death Note, Kuroko no Basuke and many more! (too many to mention, haha!) When I was young, I've been inspired by a lot of anime's, and watching them basically taught me how to draw colorful and fun stuffs. Though no one taught me how to draw, anime has contributed much to molding the artist in me. When I was in grade school, I never missed watching most of the anime that aired on TV (along with my siblings) and yep, we were often scolded by our dad because of that. He is very strict .

Well, anyway, those wonderful anime's that I've watched were all episodes of - BTX, Zenki, Thunder Jet, Fortune Quest, Blue Blink, Time Quest, Super Boink, Soul Hunter, Sailor Moon, Wedding Peach, Julio&Julia-Twins of Destiny, BeyBlade, BrainPowerd, FushigiYuugi, Cooking Master Boy, Neon Genesis Evangelion, Yuyu Hakusho, Saber Marionettes, DragonBallZ, Pokemon, Digimon, etc. (have you watched any of these, too? ^_^)
I even watched some drama anime- Remi, Georgie, Wakakusa Charlotte, Sarah-the Little Princess,Remi, Mary and the Secret Garden, Romeo, etc. haha!

I paint, I draw, I sketch, I embroider artworks, I do crafts, I write poems, I illustrate some poems/songs, etc. just for a hobby. Yep, a certified hobbyist. ('wish my job's related, but it isn't, and will never be... 'was forced to take up a different course T_T) I consider myself a beginner, an amateur...because I've got lots more to learn. As Ryoma Echizen says it--- "mada mada dane." (meaning here -> answers.yahoo.com/question/ind… )

In general, I'm a traditional beginner artist.

I seldom have any request to anyone, but here in dA, I just have one request to all: if by any chance you are to use any of my work for personal or any other reason, please do ask for my permission first. thank you... :)

***btw, when I comment on any artwork, I do it as honestly as possible...so when I say that your work is nice, good or great...shinji nasai!!! (believe it!) because every artist within us is AMAZING!

Art is life and life is art, itself..and how it would appear will depend on how you color it! nevertheless, be it colorful, or be it dark and gray, it is still a great wonder!

I highly encourage everyone to---NEVER GIVE UP ON ART!(even if your parents/other people stop or discourage you from doing your art stuffs, even if school or your job requires more of your time, even if you are already a grown up)

...and one more thing---
*****JIBUN O SHINJITE! <3

Yet again, I am an artist by heart...and no one can take that away from me. If others would try to take that away, then they would need to rip my heart out...

thank you for reading this...
have a sweet and fantastic day! ^_^


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Favourite genre of music: rock and mellow, anime music...varies depending on my mood
Favourite style of art: traditional, very detailed artworks, conceptual romantic, monochrome
(I used to draw a lot of colorful ones, but 'guess I lost those colors ; recently 'got stuck on monochrome for some reason)

Personal Quotes:
***"It's funny yet sad, when you had your heart broken yet he never really knew how you felt for him..."
***"I hate reality, and we cannot change it if we become one with it ..."
***"I can easily draw what I can see but I try hard to draw what I cannot see..."

^^
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Death Note chronicale -fixed- by sakimichan

Every shade and line contributes to the detailed contours that compose the subjects. The character physiques are well-emphasized and ma...

Situation:
"I'm 18. I don't have any friends. Truth. Every person I was friends with has managed to take advantage of me. I trust people easily. So now I don't have any friends. My mom keeps nagging. She abuses me. My health isn't that good. I keep falling ill. My dad isn't here too. I lead a very lonely life.And the guy i like (since one year) doesn't like me back. I mean we're friends but it feels like I'm not going to hear from him anymore ( not that we talk everyday because of his work). Life is really a mess. I don't want to live anymore. Any advice?"
-Anonymous

My Advice:
Oh, sweetie, if only I could hug you tight...Please do not feel that way. 
The best solution that I could think of is HOPE...NEVER EVER KILL that HOPE! 

***hope that the right time will always come even if too much pain is felt now...you are wounded and hurt, you think that the wounds will never heal, but you rule your world, only you and no one else!-they will all heal if you let them...YEAH, YOU RULE YOUR WORLD!so do not give up on it 

***hope that there will be change someday, even if it seems like forever, never ever give up...hope that the sun will still shine (though it's always been there, and you might have just lost that feeling of seeking its warmth) 

***hope that you will find someone who will accept everything about you, will never leave you alone no matter what happens, ---the one who will be one with you ...it might not be today, not tomorrow or the next months/years...or truth is, that one person might not be found, or he may not find you but there is completely nothing wrong with hoping.. 
HOPE will keep you moving forward 


Other helpful tips based on experience (feel free to do any of these, or perhaps all of them): 

1. Find something to do-what do you love to do the most/ something you're good at?---at least there is one thing, for sure, I trust that you have...even one very simple thing. Do this/these thing/s as a hobby, If possible, Spend time to hone that skill/ability and you'll someday find a sense of accomplishment to divert yourself from morbid/ sorrowful thoughts. Be inspired by others and find motivation to keep yourself busy. Read something fun/something inspiring,too. (Me, I do drawings and paintings...A LOT! ^^ Check this out ---Title: Annarasumanara via webtoons.com, if you have time of course, there are more interesting ones, like Girls of the Wild's, Untouchable and Noblesse, my faves! :)

2. Own a pet--a pet dog, guinea pig, rabbit, fish, lovebird, or any pet that you feel like having--they're likely to be pretty loyal and of course, totally cute!...plus they are true to you and simply "give" without the thought of "taking" ...cure to loneliness, too 
(Aww, I had a pet rabbit named "Yang Li before, whom I would always cuddle..and a pet dog named Princess who was sooh furry, active/jolly...I miss them!) 

3. Do yoga, deep breathing and reflections in your solitary moments, know your strengths, or perhaps find your strengths...YOU ARE STRONG, BELIEVE IN YOURSELF! Forget all about the stress 
(Me, I do underwater yoga, helps me feel very relaxed) 
Close your eyes and forget about the world for a moment...repeatedly tell yourself that you can do this, you will not give up; giving up won't do any good. 

4. Illness is sometimes a state of mind...you may be physically ill, but if you let your mind think that you're not, you will somehow feel better 

5. Stand up for yourself, fight/defend yourself from abuse..If possible, ask for help or join a support group-the world will never run out of good people, (well, I believe that there is always goodness in everyone-even that one person who mistreats you today, might still change) If you physically can't defend yourself, at least strengthen your mind by telling yourself "I will not falter just because of this"...no matter how big is the damage, imagine that it's just an ant bite! your mind can do it if you allow it to 

6. This may sound weird, but try to talk to strangers (whom you feel you want to talk to/whom you feel harmless, or whom you feel you can somehow trust)... Who knows, a connection might start...shine your light to everyone you meet, if you lost your light, try to retrieve it by finding deeper meaning in everything you do or perhaps, thinking of happy thoughts. Take chances to trust people over and over again even if you have been betrayed so many times, because people aren't the same, avoid generalizing...at one point,you may get tired of always trusting people,but never get tired of trusting yourself...TRUST YOURSELF, and TRUST that YOU WILL MAKE IT THROUGH...Don't say that you have no friends, because yourself is your friend,too...so don't ever let yourself down 

7. Don't mind what other people think! the world keeps on creating standards-what is weird, what is not...what is wrong and what is right, normal or abnormal...but I say, we have different perceptions and we must be free from the dictations of the world, so live life as you choose... 

8. Life is a game/a struggle, life is F******G hard, indeed! -think that you are born to fight---you must not give in, nor give up ---you can win this game! even if we haven't met, I believe in you, as well as all others who have shared their answers here :) 

9.LIVE your life, don't just SURVIVE...yeah, these two terms are completely different...in your case at least, try to have the will to survive now, and live it later once the time comes. You deserve better life than the one you have now, so if you give up now, how can you ever find that better life? You may have a lonely life, but you are not alone, trust me...this stage will soon be over, it does not mean this lonely life will be forever so give yourself a chance to experience the "unlonely" moments. Move forward,set aside the negative energy/thoughts/memories or perhaps view them as tools that will make you tougher/stronger... There is always a good reason for everything bad that happens...set your mind to always find that good reason. Failures and loss will not be avoided, but always look on the brighter side... 

I wouldn't say that I've been at exactly the same situation as you are in right now, but I know exactly this feeling that you are feeling - yet I never gave in; I didn't give up...after 27 years, here I am, not just SURVIVING, but now LIVING. 

I really am not expecting that my advice will help, because it's totally up to YOU! ^^ You will help yourself, more than anyone else will... 

PS Just one request, could you please SMILE today... :) Y'know, some great things start with a smile. ^^
Let's Stay Healthy and Happy! :) by eirol87


Horror (one-shot) ^^ by eirol87





Dance of the Lotus Fans... by eirol87

Holding on to a Piece of Him by eirol87

When An Angel Weeps... by eirol87

Mukuro Fanart by eirol87

Thy Rightful Owner by eirol87



9th Marvel drawing: my fave Phoenix by eirol87

Halloween Fever: Armin and Jean: Ready to Roll! by eirol87

6th marvel drawing by eirol87



Mukuro: Let it Bleed! by eirol87

Amidst the Sweetness by eirol87
  • Mood: Affection
  • Listening to: Hello-Shinee
  • Eating: Dried Dates
  • Drinking: Water

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Dolly-Belladonna Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
:hug:
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eirol87 Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
no problem, dear! :) you deserve it
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eirol87 Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
no problem, dear! :) you deserve it
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eirol87 Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
no problem, dear! :)  have a wonderful day! :)
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eirol87 Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
no problem, dear! :) you deserve it
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eirol87 Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
no problem, dear! :)
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eirol87 Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
No problem, dear... :)
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eirol87 Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
No worries, you deserve it my dear Victor :)
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eirol87 Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
I miss you, too, Antonia...Huggle! 
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eirol87 Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
no problem, you deserve it dear ! and more watchers to come! :)
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